We always want to believe that all people get married, of course, for love. But marriage is not always a mutual decision, and sometimes, simply a necessity. Consider the most frequent. The so-called “zalet” According to statistics, most unstable marriages, this is the marriage because of pregnancy. And there are a lot of marriages. The desire not to be under the parental wing. Often we try to get rid of constant parental control, not even thinking about how life will flow forth.
And if the choice has been chosen in haste, then marriage can only sympathize, because life in such a marriage, as a rule, sometimes it turns out, is not much of a cloud-free. Women thanks. Not self-confident woman, and sometimes marry, because of the fear left with nothing. After her man drowned in the love and attention, she simply allows herself to love, without experiencing similar feelings. Such a marriage is loneliness and grief. Out of pity. A related site: Dr. Mark Hyman mentions similar findings. Pity, of course, no bad feeling, but, depending where and what.
In the selection chosen, it is perhaps not the best solution. Over the years, the hatred, not love to be in that relationship ahead only. The man begins to blame his wife that he killed her life, or made them a loser. Age X. At the age of thirty years, women in the head there is one question, if all the friends have been living happily in marriage. The woman thinks, how it is, all married, and how can I, what have I done? In this case, some women just keep sitting and waiting for her prince on a white horse, and others begin to urgently look for a husband, but marriage is not such good luck bring. Out of revenge. Girls often think that revenge – a better way. And sometimes, abandoned by a woman marries a revenge of his beloved. But this option fail to live, because the lady dooms itself to boredom, hatred and failure. Living with unloved man, bring some women to suicide. Close grieve not! As often happens that children are friends from childhood, attending a class, learn together, and then one day, their parents decide for them what they made for each other. This is not the right decision, but that would please their moms and dads, boys and girls go on this chosen for them the path. Sex, sex, sex. Why then are of the opinion that if a man and woman have amazing sex life and what will be the same from them together. What a silly idea was it? Sex, of course, increases the quality of marriage, but it is only his part and not a guarantee of lasting relationships. Marriage of convenience. How many people who seek through marriage to raise their status, or improve the financial situation of their families. But keep in mind that marriages of convenience are not happy, because in addition to money, there are other values that in such relations are absent. Intuition – the best guide. All traps and intrigues before marriage is very, very dangerous.